
Now available in paperback!
Runner-up, Dayton Literary Peace Prize 2012
Winner, American Book Awards 2012
Finalist, Writing and Literature, James Beard Foundation Awards
Winner, First Book, Books for a Better Life Awards
Second Place, Nonfiction, Barnes & Noble Discover Great New Writers AwardsWhat reviewers are saying about Day of Honey:
"Her book is among the least political, and most
intimate and valuable, to have come out of the Iraq war…
There are many good reasons
to read “Day of Honey.” It’s a carefully researched tour through the history of
Middle Eastern food. It’s filled with adrenalized scenes from war zones, scenes
of narrow escapes and clandestine phone calls and frightening cultural
misunderstandings. Ms. Ciezadlo is completely hilarious on the topic of trying
to please her demanding new Lebanese in-laws.
These things wouldn’t
matter much, though, if
her sentences didn’t make
such a sensual, smart, wired-up sound on the page....
Ms. Ciezadlo is the kind of thinker who listens as well as she writes. Her
quotations from other people are often beautiful, or very funny…. Readers will
feel lucky to find her. —Dwight Garner, The New York Times
“Her epicurial tour cracks open a different Iraq. She looks into its dusty cookbooks, explores its coffeehouses and savors the foods of its many regions and religious sects.
Her book is full of more insight and joy than anything else I have read on Iraq.... Her writing is at times so moving that you want to cry for countries destroyed, but she writes with such wisdom that you don't fret over the future of these 4,000-year-old civilizations."
—The Washington Post Book World
“In her extraordinary debut,
Day of Honey: A Memoir of Food, Love, and War,
Annia Ciezadlo turns food into a language, a set of signs and
connections, that helps tie together a complex moving memoir of the
Middle East. She interweaves her private story with portraits of
memorable individuals she comes to know along the way, and with the
shattering public events in Baghdad and Beirut. She does so with grace
and skill, without falling into sentimentality or simple
generalizations.
"
—The Globe and Mail
“Ciezadlo's memoir is, fortunately, fascinating. And touching. Plus alternately depressing (because of the seemingly endless, senseless sectarian deaths in Iraq and Lebanon) and laugh-out-loud funny (because of the self-deprecation, not to mention the vivid portraits of unique characters such as her mother-in-law).... It would be an easy path, and maybe a wise one, to fill out the
remainder of this review with direct quotations from the memoir.
Ciezadlo’s writing is that good.... “Voice”
is difficult to define precisely, but writers (and plenty of readers)
know it when they see it.
Ciezadlo's voice is marvelous."
—The Christian Science Monitor
“Her writing about food is both evocative and loving; this is a woman who clearly enjoys a meal.... A glass of Iraqi tea, under Ciezadlo's gaze, is a thing of beauty."—The Associated Press
“A strange mix of sensuous writing about food, evocative first-hand reports of living life during wartime (in Iraq and Beirut), and the stresses of adapting to a new family and culture. Ciezadlo's work feels both dizzying and strangely grounded. And it makes you hungry."—The Nation
“'Day of Honey' is unabashedly complicated, piling a love story, a
rollicking adventure in the journalism trade, a bold political diatribe,
a subtle feminist screed, a guerrilla cookbook and a social, cultural
and economic history between its covers like a ludicrous towering
sandwich... Ciezadlo has a comedian's timing and a novelist's ear for
dialogue."—The Daily Star (Beirut)
“Equal parts history of the Middle East, tale of cross-cultural marriage, and riveting account of life as a civilian reporter in two war zones... Day of Honey is first and foremost a paean to the powers of food, recipes included... It's
a poetic, not to mention truthful, understanding of the culture Ciezadlo has chosen to steep herself in, but one of the great strengths of her book is that as enthusiastic as she is, she never loses her ability to cast a necessarily cold eye on the goings-on around her..."
—Bookforum
"[S]he uses the longing for food—and its parallel desire for love and friendship—to examine the effects of long-standing war in the Middle East. With "Day of Honey," Ciezadlo's lovely, natural language succeeds where news reports often fail: She leads us to care. ... "Day of Honey" is a delicious first book (and the recipes at its end only make it more so). May it not be Ciezadlo's last." —The Oregonian
"Ciezadlo paints memorable portraits of shopkeepers, journalists, poets, women's rights activists, restaurant owners, and the ways they cope... When Ciezadlo describes meals, I am both hungry and drunk on her words... The best books transport us to worlds outside our experience, making them both real and comprehensible. Unequivocally, this is one of those books." —The Austin Chronicle
“The title is drawn from an Arabic proverb: "Day of Honey, day of onions." That cycle of sweetness and grief, pleasure and tears suffuses every page here.... The book brims with Middle Eastern history, but it's the small details that tell the story: the Iraqi man who expounds on the greatness of Chicken Soup for the Soul; neighborhoods destroyed by war that sprout rooftop and terrace gardens; bars and cafes where Sunnis and Shiites might sit at the same table and share a meal... Day of Honey turns thoughts on food into provocative food for thought." —BookPage
“Like
any successful travelogue writer, she fills her pages with luminous,
funny, and stirring portraits of the places and people she came across
in her time abroad... She does this all in writing that is forthright
and evocative, and she reminds us that the best memoirs are
kaleidoscopes that blend an author's life and larger truths to make a
sparkling whole.” —Booklist (starred review)
“A mix of memoir, history, foodie narrative, and war story, this book is really quite amazing. Ciezadlo has the perfect voice for her chosen mix of topics: she's obviously intelligent, insightful yet non-judgmental, and when needed, wickedly humorous. Who knew you could learn so much about war and culture in the Middle East while contemplating the recipe for Kibbeh Nayeh? Bravo!” —Indie Bound (March 2011 Indie Next selection)
“Ciezadlo is a splendid narrator, warm and funny and more interested in others than herself... Cooking and eating are everyday comforts, and with any luck, a source of fellowship; Day of Honey is a beautiful reminder that this doesn't change even in the midst of war."—Slate
“Her fast-paced, graceful writing weaves politics into discussions of literature and cuisine to bring insight into the long history of cultural mix and transition in the Middle East, reminding us that even as war persists, our humanity helps to preserve our civilization, and our food binds our communities and our families.... A highly recommended personal perspective on political and cultural aspects of the war-riven Middle East..." —Library Journal
“A
lucid memoir of life in the war-torn Middle East... Through immersion
in food and cooking, Ciezadlo grounded herself amid widespread
instability while gaining special insight into a people forced to endure
years of bloody conflict... This ambitious and multilayered
book is as much a feast for the mind as for the heart.” —Kirkus Reviews
“A gorgeous, mouthwateringly written book that convincingly
demonstrates why, even with bombs going off all over the place, you gotta eat.” —Suketu Mehta,
author, Maximum City: Bombay Lost and Found
“A riveting, insightful and moving story of a spirited
people in wartime horror told with affection and humour. Food plays a part in
the telling—unraveling layers of culture, history and civilization, revealing codes
of behaviour and feelings of identity and making the book a banquet to be
savored." —Claudia
Roden, author, The New Book of Middle
Eastern Food
“A warm, hilarious, terrifying, thrilling, insanely
smart debut
book that gets deep inside you and lets you see the Middle East—and the
world—through profoundly humanitarian eyes. And if that weren't enough,
there's also a phenomenal chapter's worth of recipes. Buy this important
book. Now." —James Oseland,
editor-in-chief, Saveur magazine
Annia Ciezadlo combines
"mouthwatering" and the Middle East in this beautifully crafted
memoir. She adds a new perspective to the region and leavens the stories of
lives caught up in the tragedies of war, including her own, with recipes for understanding.
She is a gifted writer and a perceptive analyst. Ciezadlo’s portraits are
unforgettable." —Deborah Amos, correspondent for National Public Radio and author, Eclipse of the Sunnis: Power, Exile, and Upheaval in the Middle East
“[S]ometimes raw, often well cooked, at all times this book sizzles with
Annia Ciezadlo's candor and passion. She shares her story as she has
learned to share food. One should not refuse such an invitation." —Juliette Rossant,
author, Super Chef: The Making of the Great Modern Restaurant Empires
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MORE ABOUT DAY OF HONEY:
A luminous portrait of life in the war-torn Middle East, Day of Honey weaves history, cuisine,
and firsthand reporting into a fearless, intimate exploration of everyday
survival.
In
the fall of 2003, Annia Ciezadlo spent her honeymoon in Baghdad. Over the next
six years, she broke bread with Shiites and Sunnis, warlords and refugees,
matriarchs and mullahs. Day of Honey
is her memoir of the hunger for food and friendship—a communion that feeds the
soul as much as the body in times of war.
Living
in occupied Baghdad, Ciezadlo longs for normal married life. She finds it in
Beirut, her husband’s hometown, a city slowly recovering from years of civil
war. But just as the young couple settles in to a new home, the bloodshed they
escaped in Iraq spreads to Lebanon and reawakens the terrible specter of
sectarian violence. In lucid, fiercely intelligent prose, Ciezadlo uses food
and the rituals of eating to illuminate a vibrant Middle East that most
Americans never see.
We
get to know people like Roaa, a determined young Kurdish woman who dreams of
exploring the world, only to see her life under occupation become confined to
the kitchen; Abu Rifaat, a Baghdad book lover who spends his days eavesdropping
in the ancient city’s legendary cafés; Salama al-Khafaji, a soft-spoken dentist
who eludes assassins to become Iraq’s most popular female politician; and Umm Hassane, Ciezadlo’s sardonic
Lebanese mother-in-law, who teaches her to cook rare family recipes (included
in a mouthwatering appendix of Middle Eastern comfort food). As bombs destroy
her new family’s ancestral home, and militias invade her Beirut neighborhood,
Ciezadlo illuminates the human cost of war with an extraordinary ability to
anchor the rhythms of daily life in a larger political and historical context.
From
forbidden Baghdad book clubs to the oldest recipes in the world, Ciezadlo takes
us inside the Middle East at a historic moment when hope and fear collide. Day of Honey is a brave and compassionate
portrait of civilian life during wartime—a moving testament to the power of
love and generosity to transcend the misery of war.
Annia Ciezadlo was a special correspondent for The Christian Science Monitor in Baghdad and The New Republic in Beirut. She has written about culture,
politics, and the Middle East for The
Nation, Saveur, The Washington Post, The New York Times, The New York Observer, and Lebanon’s Daily Star. Her article about cooking with Iraqi refugees in Beirut
was included in Best Food Writing 2009.
Ciezadlo lives with her husband in New York.
FROM THE INTRODUCTION:Some people construct work spaces when they travel, lining up their papers with care, stacking their books on the table, taping family pictures to the mirror. When I’m in a strange new city and feeling rootless, I cook. No matter how inhospitable the room or the city outside it, I construct a little field kitchen. In Baghdad, it was a hot plate plugged into a dubious electrical socket in the hallway outside the bathroom. I haunt the local markets and cook whatever I find: fresh green almonds, fleshy black figs, fresh-killed chickens with their heads still on. I cook to comprehend the place I’ve landed in, to touch and feel and take in the raw materials of my new surroundings. I cook foods that seem familiar and foods that seem strange. I cook because eating has always been my most reliable way of understanding the world. I cook because I am always, always hungry. And I cook for that oldest of reasons: to banish loneliness, homesickness, the persistent feeling that I don’t belong in a place. If you can conjure something of substance from the flux of your life—if you can anchor yourself in the earth around you, like Antaeus, the mythical giant who grew stronger every time his feet touched the ground—you are at home in the world, at least for that meal.
AN EXCERPT FROM DAY OF HONEY:
A terra-cotta bowl of chicken livers
bathed in lemon juice and garlic taxied down onto the table. The others started
ordering meze in combinations I’d never imagined, Jabberwocky food, portmanteau
creatures from a parallel world: slices of sausage, thick like pepperoni but
spicy like chorizo, stewed in sweet pomegranate syrup. Little saucers of hummus
with tender spoonfuls of sautéed lamb and pine nuts nestled in their belly
buttons. Tiny glasses of crystal-clear arak that clouded into milky iridescence
when you added ice. A pickled baby eggplant stuffed with chopped walnuts and
hot red peppers and slicked with olive oil.
“What is this?” I asked, when the
eggplant appeared.
“This is makdous,” said Hanan. “It is good to eat with wine or arak.”
Who thinks of such things? What god leant
down and whispered in what mortal ear to put walnuts inside an eggplant? And
then to eat it with wine? I wanted to cry. I ate all four makdouses and ordered four more. The aquamarine smell of anise
fogged upward from the arak.
“Should we order kibbeh nayeh?” someone asked.
Sudden quiet. Everyone looked at each
other. Some shook their heads sorrowfully: don’t
say we didn’t warn you. But others nodded and elbowed each other with
shining, conspiratorial eyes.
A few minutes later, it appeared: raw
lamb ground with spices and cracked wheat and patted into a mound the size of a
large man’s hand. Scored with a fork and topped with roasted pine nuts. Hedged
with raw onion slices and sprigs of mint. Hanan anointed it, pouring dark green
olive oil over the small mountain until it pooled on the plate. Hands descended
from all directions, one of them mine, ripping off rags of bread and tearing
into the raw meat like lions. The kibbeh
slid into my mouth, smooth and almost buttery, until the kick of the spices
unfolded. Watching the others, I took a bite of mint and one of raw onion, and
the two sharp blades of flavor tore open the bloody taste of raw lamb.
Drunker now. Hanan leaned
over the table toward me. She was shouting something and smiling; I couldn’t
hear. She said it again: “How do you like Beirut?”